Keep your cool

If you’re interested in getting a girl’s trust, never let her see you sweat. When you’re out on a date, she’ll be looking to see if you can handle yourself in different situations. Can you hold a conversation? Can you carry on a meaningful and interesting talk? Can you take a joke?

How to make it work for you:

Being able to handle yourself in any situation will show a girl that you’re a man with options, which will only make her want you more.

Understand her feelings

You’ve taken the first step by making your intentions known and attempting to start a relationship. Now, it’s time to get that trust. Girls cannot always explain what they are feeling, which is why it is important to pay attention to her actions. If she lets you see her vulnerable side, it’s a good sign that she trusts you.

Understand her feelings

What to help you:

If you want to make her feel important and loved, express your feelings and listen to what she has to say.

Be a good listener

Talking to girls is no doubt a challenge. But you aren’t alone in this. Everyone, everywhere has this challenge. The first thing you need to do is listen to the girl. When you listen to her, she will automatically feel you are a good guy and will be able to trust you more. This is actually the basis in a lot of self-help advice, and it’s not specific to women. People, in general, trust those who they think genuinely care about them, which is what you will give off by listening to them. But before you start listening to her, there is something you need to do.

Challenge her

A large part of what makes a girl trust you is your willingness to have a challenge. Take something that she has done or has accomplished and tell her that she can get it done. It doesn’t matter what it is. Just make sure the outcome is positive.

How to make it work for you:

Ask a girl out that you would never consider normally. Be outrageous with her. Push her physical abilities in a fun way. Be playful with her emotionally by flirting. By making her think about what you’re doing, you’ll make her feel safe.