Learn Body Language

Look into her eyes, say his name, and be flirty. Pay attention to what she does with her body language. If she is touching her hair a lot, then she is probably nervous.

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Learn what to say

What are you going to say? Some of the techniques we’ve discussed will be very useful here. Take a look at a good opening line from a love letter. You can see how this woman used the right tone and approach and then followed up with a couple of techniques to reinforce that she was someone he wanted to know more about.

Item 1: Hey, [name],

Item 2: Thanks for writing me that note today.

Item 3: I guess we’re going to have to get to know each other.

Item 4: Do you want to get together? Thank you, [name], for your letter. I really like the way you write.

Item 5: I would like to get to know you more. I am free on Thursday and Friday and part of the day on Sunday. How about next weekend?

Item 6: I’ve got to get going. I’ve got a date.

How to use it in your life:

Don’t whine about what you want. Tell the person what you want him to do and ask.

Item 1: Hey, [name],

Item 2: Thanks for writing me that note today.

Item 3: I guess we’re going to have to get to know each other.

Item 4: Do you want to get together? Thank you, [name], for your letter. I really like the way you write.

Item 5: I would like to get to know you more. I am free on Thursday and Friday and part of the day on Sunday. How about next weekend?

Item 6: I’ve got to get going. I’ve got a date.

How to make it work for you:

You’re worried about a work presentation, approaching someone you’re not sure about, or not being able to get a date because you’re “just not interesting.” Try to express more of yourself—it’s not saying “Hi, I like you and want to go out with you.” Rather, it’s communicating how much you’ve thought about the other person and are trying to make a connection. If you’re not interesting? But you are. Every one of us is interesting. We’re just not so sure about ourselves.

Learn How to Read People

The fastest way to know if he/she likes you is to ask him/her. However, this is an awkward approach to most people. People like to feel validated and they love to know that someone likes them without having to ask.

The best way to know if your crush likes you is to pay attention to their body language. Check out the following signs to see if they like you and to help you determine if you should make a bold move.

How to make it work for you:

You don’t have to be a body language expert to know if someone likes you. If you’re interested in someone but aren’t sure if they like you, pay attention to their body language. If these signs are present, there’s a good chance that they like you as well.

Understand How People Work

How to make it work for you:

When I talk about understanding how people work, I mean it in several different ways:

a) Look at what you have in common.

b) Look at what makes people tick.

c) Use the tips to know what to say.

d) Use the tips to know what to do.

e) Use the tips to know what to avoid.

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Dress to Impress

One of the easiest ways to know if someone likes you is to pay attention to the clothes they choose to wear. People tend to spend a lot of time picking out their clothes in the morning, and what they wear can tell you a lot about who they are and what they’re thinking. Strong, confident people connect with others through what they wear because their clothes reflect who they are and what they’re about.

How to make it work for you:

Check out what your crush is wearing. If they dress well, that means they take the time to put themselves together in a way that feels good for them. If they’re paying that kind of attention to how they look, they’re probably also paying attention to other important details, like how they treat other people.

Make Confidence Your Best Asset

If you want to know how to know if he likes you, you need to be confident. Shoot for the stars, but also be aware of your limitations. If you are aware of your abilities, it is easier to gauge how you compare to others. If you’re better than everyone, you might be setting too high of expectations for yourself. If you are worse than everyone, you might be setting the bar too low.

How to make it work for you:

Stay calm under pressure. Confidence is an incredible tool to have when trying to get a date. If you are confident in yourself and your abilities, it shows and others are more likely to want to know you. Vulnerability is endearing.

Pay Attention to What They Like and Don’t Like

Did you know that a stutter can speak volumes about a person’s personality? Susie Moore, author of The Body Language of Dating, suggests it's a sign of low self-esteem. The Associated Press reported that people with a stutter have a little more gray matter in their brains than those who don't, which Moore said suggests they are more creative. Research has also found that a stutter is linked with greater emotional intelligence.

An episode of The Dr. Oz Show described a study in which brain scans were taken of 12 adults who stutter. While brain scans of non-stutterers showed no particular pattern, those with stutters showed a distinct pattern of brain activity in the left hemisphere that involved areas responsible for understanding and producing language. This suggested to researchers that the part of the brain responsible for understanding language is more developed in stutterers than non-stutterers. It's possible that stutterers have a greater awareness of language.

How to make it work for you:

Do you know someone who stutters? If so, you can notice if they seem more introverted and shy or if they have greater emotional awareness than the average person. If so, this is a great trait to know more about.

Be Intriguing and Mysterious

If you find yourself overthinking if he or she likes you or not, stop. It’s much easier to approach the person and ask them if they want to hang out. However, if you are too scared to approach that person or don’t want to put yourself out there, then here are a few ways to know if they like you. Determine if the person cares about you. Are they interested in getting to know more about you? If so, they are at least kind of interested in you.

Here’s what you’ll need:

At least 5 photos of you

A cute notebook

1 sharpie

A postcard to mail out

Video camera

2 outfits

A hairbrush, hair ties, and bobby pins

At least 10 questions that you want to know about them

The list of questions you can ask

About 20 icebreaker questions

About 10 funny questions

About 10 serious questions

Let’s get started:

1. Decide on 5 photos of yourself that you think look the best. If you are more comfortable with yourself, you will attract people to you.

2. Take one photo and write a positive word or phrase on the back. It can be something like “brave,” “friendly,” “funny,” “confident,” “intelligent,” etc. Next, you are going to write no more than three sentences about yourself.

3. Put a pin on the back of your shirt, in the area that you want to be bitten.

4. Have fun and be yourself. You’re going to gain more attraction by being yourself and being comfortable.

When you’re done, take a video of yourself telling the story of who you are.

5. Cut out a piece of postcard and write your story on it.

6. Mail your postcard to yourself.

You will want to look at your postcard every day or whenever you feel like it.

7. Wear two different outfits with many different accessories and hairstyles.

8. Take photos of the outfits.

9. After you have your photos of your outfits, you can put your photos together and make a calendar.

10. Have fun with your calendar and make it your own. If you want it to be humorous, make it humorous. Any way you want to make it, make it yours.

11. When you do go out, bring your postcard and your calendar.

12. Ask the people you meet a set of questions.

13. Only choose the questions that you are most interested in and that you want to know about them.

14. Learn more about them.

15. If it looks like the person like you as well, then you can make a date.

16. This will make you more confident in yourself because you have the courage to meet people and talk to them.

17. You will feel good about yourself and it will show you who you are.

18. You will feel even better if the person you like likes you back.

How to make it work for you:

This is one of the best exercises to make yourself a better person by becoming mysterious, confident, and interesting. There are many different ways to do this, so I wanted to give you a few examples. You can do a fun and entertaining video of you saying what your favorite things are to do on the weekends, or you could write out a story on the back of a postcard, and mail it to yourself.

Don’t Play Games

Don’t play games—let the person know how you feel. Consider the following: If you can’t tell the person how you feel, why do you think they already are aware? If you are playing games, then the other person has to guess how you feel and it won’t make them feel so great.

If you don’t want to tell the person how you feel, then how do you think the other person will respond?

If you don’t think the other person likes you, then why are you initiating contact with this person? If you don’t think the other person likes you, then again, how do you think the other person will respond?

Should you be spending time with someone you’re not interested in in the first place, or should you be spending time with someone you’re interested in?

Be Yourself

When you’re interested in someone, the simplest and best thing to do is just be yourself. If you like someone, it’s ok to show it. As long as you don’t cross the line, everyone has a right to be happy.

How to make it work for you:

It’s hard to convince people that you’re not interested in them if you’re being picky.